Thursday, January 10, 2008

Let's Be Friends!!

Dear Diary,

Brainiac called me tonight after a long week of silence- he was sounding a bit off and i asked him what the problem was - he wouldn't budge so, i said- let's speak later! anyway, it turns out that based on our last conversation,he felt that i had already ruled out the possibility of anything developing between us without even trying to be his friend and taking it from there. My point was that, based on the circumstances- i didn't think it wise to become friends and all grown out on each other and then have to deal with the wrath of my friend's friend, I don't even know if she will like the idea of us being friends. they've been apart for almost 2 yrs and she has dated other people in between- but you know how we girls never let a particular guy go- i really don't know what the case is here- all i do know is- I do't want any trouble at all!!
Aftr blowing lots of grammar back and forth-We resolved issues by agreeing to work at being friends.Like, that isn't going to enhance the attraction and likeness that we already seem to have developed for one another!!

I asked a friend of mine for advice about him, she felt that as long as i am not close friends with the girl concerned- i can go for him if i want!! I just know (based on the statement our mutual friend made just the day after i met him) that its not gonna be an easy feat!
This is a new chapter- i have never had to decide whether to go for a guy or not because i know their ex- my ex's exes have always been strangers to me. I guess it is a sign that we are growing older and there are fewer guys in the hemisphere to choose from. I'm getting a bit queasy just thinking about it!!

anyway Dear Diary, big day tmw at work- must make sure the client's gonna be happy enough so that i can have a lovely weekend with my 'new friend'..

will keep you posted either way!!

6 comments:

SMSL said...

Hey girl, u said it yourself "getting older and fewer guys in the hemisphere to choose frm". i hate giving advice but i'll do it just this 1ce. i think you shld get to know the guy secretly and find out if he is even worth it and if he is then you can deal with the NF issue. besides you don't even know the girl that well, must you be her friend??. Do you even know why they broke up? i think you shld also find out, what if the guy treated her badly? wld it matter to you?

Intuitive Girl (I.G) said...

thanks for the advice. i think you are right about finding out if he is even worth it!! I know that he didn't treat her badly as they are still friendly till date and i get the feel that she may want to go back there. I think it was she left him in the first place! i dont have to be her friend- it's just that because of our mutual friend we are often in the same place at same time, and have now become quite friendly etc etc..
its such a mare!!

36 INCHES OF BROWN LEGS said...

i dont know why u r giving urself grief babes, they broke up 2 years ago na????? get to know the guy first, abge if u find dat u do like him just got for it. u r not even friends!!!

Intuitive Girl (I.G) said...

thanks 36!!! the friendship has started now.... there's very subtle chemistry!!

Afrobabe said...

subtle chemistry...that has got to be an understatement

rethots said...

...the friendship trail.