Thursday, January 3, 2008

Talk About Speaking too Soon

Dear Diary,

Your favourite girl is in a dilemma now o.... remember this guy i told you about who happens to be NF (new friend's) ex!! well, seems he likes me and you know how it is- its not like i like him yet but i do enjoy talking to him- which in some cases can be classified as LIKE!!

here's what happened- on New Year's day, I'm minding my business when text comes to my phone- just saying Happy New Year, I.G. signed of with his name- let's call him Brainiac (B for short). I'm confused because it's come from a foreign number and i didnt think B would remember to text me from outta town- so i responded with- B who?? he responded and i decided to leave it at that. But he decided to have my time-we started Text Chatting back and forth just talking about the holidays etc. Anyway, by day 2 (yesterday), he called me Baby in one text- i'm like baby ke?? he then asked if i a.wanted to be called baby or b. didnt want him to call me baby and i ignored the text!! moved on to another topic. Later, i asked him if A. he wanted to call me baby or B. he didn't want to call me baby.He replied with A!!
Again, i ignored that and changed the topic- he won't have any of it and called instantly-anyway to cut a long story short- i explained that i thought he was Off Limits and explained why and he practically told me off, saying we hadn't even been on one date or hung out together, or decided if we are compatible and he doesn't need validation to do so.... in short, NF is gonna kill me!!

He's smart, funny, chilled out and just seems nice!! am i bad for liking him back?? i didn't know him while they were dating and i didnt meet him thru her. I dunno what to do???

Back to my 2 blogs ago blog- can we help who we fall for?? I knew this business was unfinished stuff!! it may be premature and when he does get back and we hang out, it may not go anywhere but what if it does-- i like NF to a certain degree- ie - I Like Me more..

1 comments:

rethots said...

First thing, ignoring questions never makes them 'unasked', rather a very skillful person will make your ignoring......mean consent.

Free your mind,......
Short of which, he dated your friend that does not make him a no go area.
However, personally, i would not go out with a friend's ex.